"The joys of parents are secret, and so are their grieves and fears."- Francis Bacon

 

"Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you."- Kahlil Gibran

 

Father : My father Mr.S.Malakondiah, retired as a civil servant from the Government of Andhra Pradesh in the late 70’s. He was a quiet worker - known for his sincerity and hard work. On persuasion he contested in the Nellore municipal corporation elections and was subsequently elected as its chairman. He served in that position for over three and a half years. Since his retirement from public life he moved over to Hyderabad.

Now, he leads a quiet retired life, busy at his desk sitting amidst piles of books studying and probing, as a college student who is preparing for his final exams. He had written and published two books. His interest in Hyderabad and eye for meticulous detail have resulted in a one of a kind comprehensive directory of the city called "Mahanagar Darsini"

He is a silent vanguard loved and regarded by all the family members of his seven children. He enjoys a good reputation within the community and outside, too.

8th July, 2006

Daddy is past 87. He is no longer as healthy as he used to be. He is only sentinel around breathing confidence and bonding us. The scars left by mother’s departure to some extent could be taken care of by daddy. He keeps himself busy even today briskly working and keeping to his schedule. He now appears more or less settled. Whenever he undertakes journeys his fragile health shows up. We are worried but feel reassured seeing him around and minding his work. He is not able to do writing and reading work as he used to do on doctors advice. He is now days busy listening to world space-the speeches of Puttaparti Saibaba. Sisters and others don’t visit as frequently as they used to do when mother was alive but having father around has its aura in the family.

Monday, 02 December, 2013
Daddy is now 96. He is too weak but still he is able to manage himself without being a burden to others. Lots of interesting things about dad will be posted in course of time.

 

"God could not be everywhere, and therefore He created mothers"- Jewish proverb
"This earth is my mother and I am the son of this earth" - Atharve Veda, 12-1-12

Mother :  Unlike my father, Mrs.S. Lakshmi Devi, my mother is a very vibrant, social and talkative lady. She is a good company for all the family members, loves gossip and enjoys travelling. Though illiterate she is very wise and dominative. She is strong willed and inspite of her poor health she is found to be very active. She goes about conducting poojas and ceremonies as usual. In peak winters too for over a month she performs early morning rituals. The age-old practice of fasting the whole day does not deter her even at this age of hers’.

Cont….
She is no more. She left us all alone in this wild void on 8th September 2003. Life for me without her will never be the same again. It is very difficult for me reconcile with the fact that she is no more. My age and wisdom have not helped me to overcome this grief. I used to feel certain solace in her presence even when misfortunes frowned at me. Nothing matters and nothing in this world can replace mother’s love. 

Every one in the family miss her and it appears as though a storm has come and blown away everything. She used to be a vibrant communication link amongst all and now we feel like snapped from each other.

Ode to mother

Mother! You were the spirit and the substance
Life without you is vapid and lustreless

Can thousand suns match your effulgence O! Mother?
Can million flowers bring your vivacity?

You had those Jesus’ eyes beaming compassion
You were innocent like a child but the courage of a king

How many times did you defy misfortunes?
How many times did you challenge death?

A matchless mother unsurpassing in love
You gave a new meaning to motherhood

You brought up all seven children like one
We knew no worries and no fears

We are aware of the pain and the strain you carried through years
We are insolvent we can never repay your debt

You have to leave this world in such suffering?
Mother o mother! I lay at your feet reminiscing the unkind past

 

Spouse: My wife Dr.Sudha Prabhath studied for her medicine degree from the Moulana Abul Kalam Azad Medical College, New Delhi. She is successfully performing her duties as a doctor at the C.G.H.S, Hyderabad. She is a caring person, popular among relatives and friends and takes a lot of interest about their well being. A very artistic lady, good at sketching, keen to learn new things though never could complete anything she has undertaken in her artistic pursuit.

Kids: My elder son Mr. S. Suprath, is in his third year of study in engineering. He is well behaved, respects his elders and others. He is easy going a bit lazy perhaps, very ambitious though. In his leisure time he gives tutions to young students.

Mr.S. Vishwanth, my younger son, is in his first year Biotechnology in engineering. He is very flamboyant kind but a little bit shy, too. Sometimes he would need reassurances from his mother. He is very ambitious and hard working. He cares a lot for others and is very helpful.

8th July, 2006

Suprath now has finished his engineering and is doing IIM at Kozhkode. He was highly determined turned very mature in his thinking and judgment. He is also very independent, no longer guided by us. The bird has taken to wing.

11.12.2013

Suprath is 30 and he is struggling to be his own.

8th July, 2006

Vishwanth is now a graduate. He is still looking around and is not determined on any particular course.

11.12.2013

Vishwanth is 28 and is registered for PhD with Gitam university, Visakapatnam.